I think the problem here is shaming people in relationships because they watch porn. Why would you have to “justify” to me your consumption of sex based on the fact that you’re single?

Also, there could be endless reasons why people in relationships still want to engage in this fantasy (which is what porn is). Sometimes their partner isn’t into the same stuff or sometimes they just want a form of escapism, and that is no reason to feel threatened.

If the author’s husband preferred porn over his own wife on their honeymoon, the problem isn’t porn, there are bigger problems in the relationship. As the author stated towards the end.

It is also imperative for people to understand that a person’s actions should never under any circumstances interfere with the relationship they have with themselves.

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